My partner and I have a routine we call relationship check-in, in which we ask each other the same questions every month. We have done this since the beginning of our relationship. I think this is very important as this routine allows us to be honest with ourselves and each other. Doing relationship check-in also helps us be better people for ourselves and each other and supports our relationship to grow better.
We begin by asking questions and then thanking each other for being honest and willing to work together in this relationship. And of course, end the check-in with a big, warm hug and a kiss on the forehead.
Here are the questions for the relationship check-in.- How connected are you feeling in the relationship?
- Do we have enough quality time together?
- Is there anything I am doing that's been annoying you lately?
- Is there anything I've stopped doing that you miss?
- How can we have more fun together?
- Is there anything you want us to work on?
- How healthy do you feel our relationship is?
- Do you feel loved by me?
- What have you done for yourself in the past month?
- What have you got coming up this month and how can I support you?
I hope you and your partner find a beautiful and healthy relationship. Everyone deserves that <3
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